Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Happy 12th Birthday Sadie

Happy Birthday Sadie!!!!

Sadie is celebrating her 12th birthday today! Sadie enjoys family, friends, reading, art, all animals, cooking and crafts.

Sadie is an amazingly bright girl, she is filled with courage and love. All those who know Sadie knows she gives the best hugs of all time. Sadie has a generous heart and seems to have a very keen intuition for those who are hurting or who have needs. In the last few years Sadie has found her personality and this girl can make me laugh. She is witty and quick! Sadie loves her family dearly and has a special gift with children.

A glance back to a few years back:

This little girl has grown into an amazing young lady. I thank the Lord each day for her and for the impact she has on our lives. She truly is an amazing gift!
Happy Birthday Sadie!!!!!!!!!!!!

Celebrations that took place today:
Sadie started her birthday with coffee cake, bacon and sausage! "Oh yeah"
Of course Sadie had to go to school today, but in celebration they gave her a half day!! (really, there is half days all week, but we will say it is for her birthday...hee hee)
Sadie has really wanted to go back to Rainforest Cafe; the last time we went was 2 years ago in Disneyland.

We were all lucky enough to be joined by our greatest friends the Caceres to celebrate the day (we missed Mr. Caceres though!!)

Cha Cha came to wish Sadie a happy birthday!
And to finish it off there was singing (she didn't even turn red!)

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Monday, October 26, 2009

47 simple ways to waste money

I saw this on MSN this morning and had to share with you!

Words of wisdom: Eat before you visit a grocery store . . . or the state fair.

How are you doing with your money? Do you have everything under control, or are you spending a little more than you should?

Well, if you'd like to blow even more of your money, this list will help you empty your bank account in half the time you usually do. Enjoy.

1. Gamble in Vegas. Sure, some people get lucky. But most of us blow a wad and leave feeling like reckless morons.

2. Spend your spare time surfing the bargain sites. It doesn't matter if you don't actually need anything. You'll find something to buy.

3. Shop hungry. It's amazing how much extra food you'll throw in your cart.

4. Draw more money out of the ATM than you need. If you get $20, you'll spend $20. If you get $40, it will disappear just as quickly.

5. Become an impulse buyer. See something in a shop window, grab it immediately and worry about the cost later.

6. Pay bills late. That will eat up some serious cash in the form of late fees and interest rate hikes, and sometimes will damage your credit rating.

7. Lend money to people who won't pay you back, even when they say it will be different this time.

8. Don't shop around. The first place you look is almost certainly not the best price available.

9. Don't buy online. Those High Street retailers have lots of extra overhead, and they pass it on to you by marking up products.

10. Go to a state fair or carnival and buy lunch from a concession stand for your family: $8 for a hot dog, $4 for a can of Coke. Multiply by number of family members.

11. Feed $1 bills into those crane machines that tempt you with stuffed animals. You may get lucky, but only after you've paid twice what the crappy toy is worth.

12. Buy complete albums instead of cherry-picking the songs you want from a music download site. (Unless, of course, you always buy albums that are 100% brilliant from beginning to end.)

13. Never double-check your measurements on a DIY project. You'll make at least one big mistake and have to buy another round of materials.

14. Forget to take back movie rentals on time. Red Box may be only a buck a night, but rent two and leave them behind the sofa, and that can add up quickly.

15. That goes for library books, or any other type of rental that fines tardiness.

16. Buy food, throw it in the back of the fridge or in the vegetable crisper and forget about it. Then, a few weeks later, you can throw it away. Cash in the trash.

17. Become completely disorganized and forgetful. You have no idea how quickly you'll spend money if you are buying things that you already have, or can't find the library books that were due three months ago.

18. Ignore special offers and coupons. Why pay $3 for an item when you can just as easily pay $5?

19. Take your car in for an oil change and proceed to get every single recommended repair. I just took my car in for an oil change; they wanted to change all four brake pads. Little did they know my car has a warning light that tells me when my brake pads need replacing. I also have a mechanic for a father-in-law.

20. And speaking of oil changes, get yours done every 3,000 miles. True, modern engines and synthetic oils mean most vehicles can do 5,000 to 7,000 miles between changes, but so what.

21. Use credit cards without paying off the balance in full each month. You will rack up some delicious interest.

22. Fly first class. You'll get to your destination at the same time as the folks a few rows behind you, but you'll pay substantially more for some legroom and a nicer meal.

23. Never read a contract. Ever. You will later be taken by surprise with all sorts of fees and penalties. And legally, you signed on the dotted line so you're obligated to pay them all -- or in some cases, like a secured loan, lose your house.

24. Buy an extended warranty, especially on a car. Most of the time, you'll be paying a huge percentage of the cost of the item and when it comes time to make a claim you'll be battling with legal eagles who will do anything to make sure you don't get any money.

25. Don't take advantage of your company's 401(k) match, because another great way to waste money is to decline free money.

26. Buy a monthly gym membership, work out once, then sit at home for the next year and watch TV.

27. Buy in bulk stuff you'll never be able to use or consume before the sell-by-date.

28. Smoke. If you go through one pack per day, you'll literally burn more than $2,000 per year.

29. Walk past the perfectly functional coffee machine at home, drive to work and pick up a grande half-caf, double-mocha-vanilla-chai-peppermint cream coffee from Starbucks or any other "premium" coffee chain. That's an easy way to blow up to $5 on something that should cost you only pennies.

30. Buy books, DVDs and CDs at bookstores like Borders and Barnes & Noble. Last time I checked, the regular price for a new DVD averaged $25 to $30 in one of those stores. Even when they're on sale, they're more expensive than the same copy at Target.

31. Throw away your leftovers. Whether they're from a home-cooked meal or from dining out, just put them in the fridge covered in cling wrap and then pop them in the garbage a week later.

32. Buy bottled water. It's dollars for a bottle, pennies from the faucet. And let's not forget the environmental costs of bottled water either.

33. Use 411 instead of (800) GOOG-411. The first costs you a hefty fee each time you dial, the second is free. Both offer the same service.

34. Buy the high-octane gas. Modern computer-controlled cars will alter ignition and timing profiles to allow the use of low-grade gas, but why bother taking advantage of that?

35. Purchase bags of baby carrots. In actuality, they're large carrots shaped into smaller, bite-sized pieces, but you're way too busy to cut carrots to size.

36. Don't take the time to read street signs. I got myself a lovely $25 parking ticket recently because I thought the road was meter-free. It wasn't. The meters had been replaced by one parking fee booth about 20 feet down the road.

37. Oh, and why not speed as well? You'll get a big fine and a few points on your license just to get somewhere a few minutes quicker.

38. Rent from Blockbuster instead of RedBox -- $4 vs. $1 per night. And never remember to return it so you get charged a big fat fee to keep the disc.

39. Never monitor your bank account(s). That way, you can occasionally overdraw an account and get charged a lovely big fee.

40. Don't take care of your teeth, and avoid dental checkups and cleanings. You'll save a little money at first, but worry not: The dentist's fees will come pouring in when your mouth looks and smells like the inside of a garbage dump.

41. Don't haggle. Whether it's a small bag of apples at a farmers market or the purchase of a new home, just accept the first price and call it good.

42. Play the lottery. Sure, there's a roughly 1-in-120 million chance you could bag the jackpot, but it's a slim chance. Even the odds of winning just a lousy $10 are about 1 in 35. Imagine closing your eyes and picking one white ball out of a bag containing 34 red balls. Yep, doubtful.

43. Never question a dubious charge or bill. If in doubt, let the restaurant, grocery store, cable company, phone company or any other mega-corporation keep the money. They need it for all the lawsuits.

44. Buy brand-name everything. Yes, many of the store-brand products are repackaged brand names at lower prices, but why pay less?

45. Buy a new car. It loses about 20% of its value the second you drive it off the lot.

46. Don't turn off the lights or appliances. Keep them all going, even when you're out of the house. That should push your electricity bill way up.

47. Don't read Wise Bread or our personal-finance book. But as you're reading this, maybe you will end up saving some money today.

Don't worry. Follow the rest of the advice here and you can soon spend way more than you need to.

Posted by Karen Datko on Monday, October 26, 2009 12:39 AM This post comes from Paul Michael at partner blog Wise Bread.

So how are you doing???

Saturday, October 24, 2009

Not big on buttons

I am not super big on all the buttons that get thrown around on blogs, often I find them distracting and so many times there are so many of them they can get overwhelming, but I am adding a button.

Frugal Girls!

The Frugal Girls site is one of my new favorite sites. Besides the fact that in the last two weeks I have received 2 $25.00 gift cards for only $2.50 each, that I have received FREE items in the mail (not joking) and have personally use 2 huge coupons - there is TONS of other good stuff they offer. I find myself checking this site every day AND I get their emails! Today, the girls had coupons from Barnes and Noble for FREE hot cocoa and cookies! I know I could probably find these things if I spend time searching (seriously - I don't even spend the time updating as much as one should!), but this site pulls it all together for us! I just wanted to share, it's a great resource and the button has been added!

Birthday Celebrations

Today we had a chance to celebrate the girls birthday with family. We had Grandma's and Grandpa's galore, Aunts and Uncles and even a few cousins (who said "how many Grandma's and Grandpa's do you you have?)

Really - look at all those candles!

Getting ready to blow!!!

The girls got many gifts today, but one of the ones they were super excited to use was their new electric toothbrushes. We plugged them in to charge, but they take 16 hours!!! Both girls are going to try them in the morning!!

Stay tuned for more about Sadie's birthday soon and click here to read more about Syrah's birthday!

A visit with family...

Last weekend Billy's brother and his family made the long drive from Southern Oregon to come stay with us for the weekend. I haven't seen the kids since November of last year so I was amazed to see how much they have grown!!

Seriously McKayla is SO cute!!

My sister-in-law Jaime and her two kiddo's Koen (4) and McKayla (almost 2).

While they were here they were able to see one of Syrah's soccer games and we went to a small local pumpkin farm. I love this little farm because it is a true farm in the midst of the suburbs!
We were excited to see:

three day old piglets! They were so tiny and so cute. There was another set of piglets that were just a little over a month old and they were jumping and playing. Although the smell left much to be desired, it was sure fun to watch them!

Jake, Jaime, Koen & McKayla

They had a hay bin where the kids could search for coins and we were able to snap this quick shot off the four of them together!

Another exciting thing we saw was....
1 day old mice - I wish this picture did this justice... they were tiny (think smaller than the tip of your pinky).

McKayla found her pumpkin!

Might this be the one??? (Koen found one a tiny bit more his size later!)

Syrah found hers!!

Last, but not least, Sadie found her pumpkin!

Our annual picture at this farm (we have been coming here since Sadie was 1!)

McKayla & Syrah heading to bed!

Thank you Jake, Jaime, Koen and McKayla - we are so thankful we got some time with you, looking forward to seeing you for Thanksgiving.

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Happy 7th Birthday Syrah

Happy Birthday to our baby girl...

Syrah is celebrating her 7th birthday today. Syrah enjoys reading, playing soccer, family game times, animal crossing, her dog Ava, school, the color yellow and cuddle time.

Syrah has a big heart that is full of energy and spirit. Syrah is a great girl who we feel so blessed to have been given the opportunity to raise us as the gift from God she is. She has a bubbling personality, a contagious giggle, a willingness to try new things, a bight smile, an openness to challenges and a warm heart.

A picture looking back:

Hard to believe how fast these years fly by, but oh do we feel blessed that we have each moment we do!!

Happy Birthday Syrah!!

Birthday Celebrations
We started the day off by celebrating Syrah with one of her favorite breakfast foods; coffee cake! We were able to share this special morning with her Uncle Jake, Aunt Jaime and cousins Koen & McKayla.

Syrah had a super fun day and we ended it with a great dinner with some very special friends:
Syrah really wanted to go to Red Robin for her birthday dinner so we did! She was overjoyed to find out our dearest friends would be joining us (The Caceres Family - thank you for joining us, we loved it!). When they came to sing to her, it was AWESOME! These are the only two shots we have because all of us were laughing SO hard! Both Syrah and I were in tears with laughter!

All and all I think she enjoyed the day celebrating her life!

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Happy Birthday little Brother

Sunday we got to celebrate my little brother's birthday (as you can see he is 4!). Actually Lauren put four candles on the cake because growing up they always did 4 candles

One for past

One for the present

One for the future and...

One to grow on!

Happy Birthday Eric ~ We love you!!

Soccer Season

It's another soccer season... Syrah is loving it!!

final goodbyes to Maui

It is sad to say, but our trip to Maui is now merely a memory! We had such a great time and we felt the time spent with our family was priceless. I have so many pictures that I am going to let them doing the talking...
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Goodbye Maui, we took memories that will last among generations! Thank you Grandma Connie for the gift of this once in a lifetime trip!